Be practical - a huge skirt will be hard to maneuver in a tiny ceremony site.

Tips for Bridal Gown Shopping

You may have fantasized about your dream dress from the moment he popped the question, but the chances are you probably haven't yet considered the practicalities of actually finding it. Here are some tips to ensure it turns out to be a dream come true.

1. You deserve excellent service. This ain't no cheap dress and you have a right to expect top-notch customer service. If you believe you're being mistreated, take charge of the situation and go to another shop that values you as a customer.

2. Plan in advance. Most bridal gowns have to be special ordered, and it can take up to six months to order certain dresses. Then you have to leave time for alterations. A word to the wise: start shopping for a gown nine months to a year before your wedding.

3. Keep an open mind. Try on as many styles as you can. Lots of dresses have zero hanger appeal, but look great once you put them on.

4. We all know that too many cooks spoil the soup - same applies when shopping for a gown. Bringing along an army of well-meaning friends or relatives is usually a mistake. Bring along one or two trusted partners - your mom, a close friend, etc. - for a second opinion.

5. Start out with a general idea of the kind of dress you like: traditional, straight, empire line, princess line, etc. Also, think about whether you want a theme to your wedding (color, period, style) as this will make your choice of dress easier.

6. Be practical - a huge skirt will be hard to maneuver in a tiny ceremony site.

7. Ask to try on a veil with the dress and consider accessories to complete the look, such as jewelry and gloves. These touches just might turn a dress from ordinary to special.

8. Think about the style of your shoes: whether or not you want a heel may affect the whole look of your dress.

9. Remember to look at your rear view! Your guests will have an uninterrupted view during the ceremony, so it's got to look good.

10. Get it in writing. Make sure all the details of your gown order (and any promises the shop makes about delivery, sizing, etc.) are in writing before you place your deposit.